What
I remember most vividly is the taste, that metallic gritty gray taste, in my
mouth as my friend Marika and I walked in silence around the huge crater we
call Ground Zero. It was November 2001. The ruins of the Twin Towers still smoldered.
The people on the streets of lower Manhattan washed and scrubbed clean of ashes,
were ashen still.
But
I get ahead of myself.
I
heard the news, as we all did, with a numb shock. I slept in that morning after
a long church meeting the night before. I was dressing to go to a committee
meeting when my mother called and told me to turn on the TV. I rarely did that
first thing in the morning pre 911 and almost always do now. Just one of 911’s aftershocks in my
life.
My
dear friend Luanne’s husband Fabrizio and son Jack were to fly to Italy that
day for a family wedding. They were, of course, the first to cross my mind. Where were they? It was some hours before I knew so the
catch in my throat was specific, had faces, names, a shape and a history.
As
the numb day crept by, I did what pastors do. I checked on my people and
organized a prayer service for that night, candles and psalms of lament,
comfort and a deep stretching for hope.
Over
the next weeks we shuddered through our new lives, didn’t we? Bits of truths
and half-truths surfacing and submerging daily.
The
church where I was pastor in Birmingham Alabama was evacuated one day, in
October I think, because white powder had been found in envelopes delivered to
the Birmingham News Building next door.
Confused men in HAZMAT suits told us to take the 70 children in our
child development center to the old church basement and stay there. The little ones formed straight lines
as they had been taught, holding hands fore and aft, like baby elephants trunk
to tail in a circus, as they followed their teachers down the dark rickety
staircase.
“Is
it time for us to die yet?” one little one asked.
“No
honey, no,” his teacher assured in a honey voice as she shifted the two infants
in her arms a little higher on her hips.
Shortly
the fire crews came back and told us to go home. They handed us surgical masks
as we filed out to the parking lot. Baby powder, as it turns out. A cruel and expensive hoax.
In
those early days we changed, as hard as we tried not to. As desperately as we
did not want to give the terrorists that particular win, we changed. Our young
country grew up in a way. War on our shores with an enemy so amorphous as to be
nearly invisible made us look at each other in different ways. Arab taxi drivers
in New York plastered their cabs with American flags. Sikh men, the most
peaceful of religions, were detained everywhere simply for wearing their
turbans. Despite ourselves, our shock and confusion lashed out at ‘foreigners.’
Even Muslim Americans whose families had been in this country for decades
became pariahs in their workplaces and communities.
We
did not know what to do with our fear.
We
did not know what to do with our outrage.
We
did not know what to do with our impossible need for things to go back to the
way they were.
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Each
fall my mother and I took the Amtrak Crescent from Birmingham to Penn Station
for a week of theater going. We were scheduled for our trip in November. We
debated. Should we go? Would we be safe?
We
watched on television as New Yorkers valiantly tried to respond to the tragedy.
We watched the streets empty of tourists. We saw clips of Broadway actors tap-dancing
their hearts out to nearly empty theaters. We decided that we would go, if for
no other reason, to support in our small way the economy of New York and to see
our friends who lived there.
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As
the train rounded the awesome curve in the tracks past Newark, we saw the
snaggle-toothed skyline. Like a third grader’s smile in a class picture, the
city’s face was set in a grimace. A plume of smoke still rose into the air. We
could hardly bear to look. Mama and I decided then and there that we would not
go down, we would not visit the crater, gawk at the scene of the crime.
And
yet.
One
of my parishioners, Marika, had recently moved to Westchester County. We had
made arrangements weeks before to meet for the day to catch up. The plan was to
go up town to the Cloisters Museum to see the Unicorn Tapestries, great
medieval tapestries rich with as yet unexplained symbolism. And so we did. Meeting
with a long hug, we made our way to the museum, just the two of us in a sea of
shaken people.
After
we saw the gorgeous ancient things--the soft colors almost felt living--
we sat in a quiet chapel together talking about
everything. I don’t remember debating it or even really discussing it at
all. Suddenly we just both knew
that we needed to go to the site. So we took the subway as far as the line went,
destroyed as it was, and walked the long blocks to Ground Zero.
It
was a clear day up town, but down town the air was still thick with dusty
particles that we shuddered to think about. The area was huge, blocks and
blocks and blocks. Fences were erected all around the perimeter. Sheets and tarps covered them to shield
mourners from the total grimness of the task taking place in the deep, deep
pit.
It
was possible, if one tried, to look through cracks and see the responders in
their protective gear, their search dogs like small insects moving through the
charred and smoking rubble. The so-called cathedral girders stuck up eerily.
The
street was silent, thronged with people just walking, looking and feeling. The
fences, thick with flowers at the base, were covered with messages in dozens of
languages scrawled or carefully written on the fabric coverings. Tiny Japanese, Korean, Chinese
characters in neat up and down rows.
Sharp Russian with its hard edges.
Round and sweeping Arabic. Dimly
remembered Hebrew and Greek. Tamil’s tiny circles. Guttural German, fluid
French, melodic Italian, bent shouldered Polish. Too many to identify.
Too many to number.
Pictures
of the lost were stapled to the sheets.
A third grade picture and the words “I love you son, Mom.” Someone’s New
York Marathon medal hung from a wire: “It wasn’t the same without you.”
In
a churchyard, volunteers handed out sandwiches to workers on break and held
grown men in full fire gear as they sobbed with their faces lost in their
hands. Murmurs of comfort and the wracking crying of the responders were the
only sounds that I remember. That and footsteps, hundreds of muffled footsteps.
So
we walked. We just walked.
The
next week I knew that I would preach on Jesus walking on water; that mysterious
image of Jesus coming to his frightened friends in the midst of a great storm,
across the sea…an ancient symbol for chaos. Perhaps that was what was running
through my mind. I don’t know. But
suddenly, take my breath away suddenly, I could see him. Not with my eyes but
with my soul. Suddenly I could see Jesus there, in that horrible pit, picking
through the rubble, patting a firefighter on the shoulder, scratching the dogs
on their chins, and lifting heavy objects with those whose shoulders could no
longer bear the load.
Suddenly
I saw him there, like he always is, in the very midst of our pain, suffering,
chaos and confusion. Suddenly I saw him there, intimately there and a part,
hallowing even our worst hour.
I
will never forget it.
*******
Marika
and I made our way back up to midtown and stopped for an early supper at a half
empty Italian restaurant. I told her what had happened and we cried together. When
finished our meal, we hugged once more and she went on her way home. I went
back to the Algonquin, that precious little hotel where writers gathered at the
round table in the 20’s and where Miranda the cat greets guests as they check
in.
That
night, a valiant group of actors tapped their hearts out to us in a half empty
theater and Mama and I wept. We
clapped our hands numb.
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As
I shared this memory with my own little flock today, we wept again
together. We sang prayers for
peace. We dug deep for hope and
forgiveness. And we made a solemn
vow: We will not become the people our enemies think we are. We will not add to the sum total of
violence and fear in the world. We
will live on the other side of 911 as people of a different way.
In
a hundred years 911 will be no news at all, just a piece of history’s long trek
of human violence and mayhem. How
we respond, though, now that could be news. If, against all odds, Christians decided once and for all
that we were going to live like Jesus and become the change he died to offer
the world, that would be redeeming wouldn’t it? If, against all odds, we decided
to
return to no one evil for evil,
to
banish the notion of enemy,
to
stop drinking to poison of unforgiveness,
to
give up our right to avenge, that would indeed be news for the history books.
Then
horror of 911 would become a bit like the cross, a blasphemy that God used to
reconcile the world.
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